Woman_praying_in_Cristo_buen_Viaje_ChurchI love to sing at Mass.  Recalling an adage attributed to St. Augustine, I believe that he who sings, prays twice.

From my vantage point in the third row, I want Jesus–waiting and listening from up there in the tabernacle–to hear my prayer; and so I sing loudly.

(This is a problem when I’m surrounded by tight-lipped pewsitters.  I once carried a tune well; but following a throat infection years ago, I’m wont to drop a full octave here and there, especially on “D” notes.  It’s embarrassing to me, and painful to all within earshot.  So c’mon, neighbors!  There’s safety in numbers.  Join in, and we’ll ALL look good!)

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Anyway, this is why I sing:  To honor God. 

NOT to make a political point.

That means I want to sing songs which are prayers.  Not songs about community (We Are the Church) or songs about patriotism (My Country, ‘Tis of Thee) or songs in which the composer’s well-crafted lyrics have been thwarted by feminist reworking to obscure the “maleness” of God.

Recently, I’ve been stubbornly silent when a couple of songs have been dusted off and inserted into the Sunday liturgy.  Here are two songs which I heartily decline to sing, and why:


Oh ho!  You think you can fool me, saving the good stuff until the second stanza.  That’s where you want me to join in a thinly-veiled feminist hissy-fit about the all-male priesthood and women’s ordination and stuff.  That’s where you ask me to sing,

For woman and man, a place at the table
Revising the roles, deciding the share
With wisdom and grace, dividing the power
For woman and man, a system that’s fair.

Uh…. nope, can’t do.  Zip’s the lips, I say.  Here is where I instead insert a real prayer, not a whiny political posturing–whispering a “Hail Mary” to the Most Highly Esteemed Woman of All Time.

According to her biography, Shirley Erena Murray, the lyricist who penned the words to that most irreverent of songs, is “Methodist by upbringing, and ecumenical by persuasion, she has spent most of her life as a Presbyterian.”  No offense to Christian believers of other faiths, but Ms. Murray seems not to have absorbed the reverence and the aura of worshiyp and respect which characterize the Catholic Mass, where the Son of God is present on the altar, Body and Blood, Soul and Divinity.   The Catholic liturgy is a place for gazing upon our Creator, asking His help in our daily lives, according to Him the worship and the reverence that is His due.  It is NOT the place for squeezing in your favorite feminist campaign slogan.

And then there’s this:


Less strident than “A Place at the Table”, it nonetheless makes its political points–twisting the knife, scolding the hapless clergy and congregation, inferring that the “old Church” just wasn’t good enough.  Suggesting that men and women are equal in THIS song, for THIS writer, but not for the rest of the poor uninformed clergy and worshippers who have somehow, all these years, failed at egalitarianism (if they ever even tried).

Summoned by the God who made us
Rich in our diversity
Gathered in the name of Jesus
Richer still in unity

Let us bring the gifts that differ
And in splendid varied ways
Sing a new church into being
One in faith and love and praise

Radiant risen from the water
Robed in holiness and light
Male and female in God’s image
Male and female, God’s delight

So I rebel.  The walk up the aisle to receive Communion becomes a test:  Will I focus on Jesus as He offers Himself to me?  Or will I seethe, angry about being forced to join the vociferous protesters on behalf of Church reform and women’s rights?

Sometimes I win, sometimes I lose.

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The claim is sometimes made that Vatican II called for liturgical reform, bringing the Mass to the people with greater clarity, hymns and prayers in the vernacular, a focus on people’s concerns.

But however well-intentioned the reformers who would denude the traditional hymns of their great mystery and pomp, there is much to be said for preserving the great pre-Vatican hymns:  prayerful hymns like “Holy God, We Praise Thy Name” and“Let All Mortal Flesh Keep Silence” and “Come Holy Ghost.”  In those songs, we knew that God was God, and we were not.

Vatican II’s oft-ignored guideline for liturgical reform, Sacrosanctum Concilium, gave pride of place to choral music and to Gregorian chant.  And the Holy See’s 1967 Instruction on music in the liturgy, Musicam Sacram, highlighted the important role of the choir in the sacred liturgy.


This article was originally published on Patheos. 

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  1. Manny September 6, 2016 at 3:29 am - Reply

    Yikes, I wouldn’t sing those either. They have not been played at our church. I’ll have to look in the missal to see if they are in there. Kathy, we are such simpaticos. 😉

  2. Daria Sockey September 4, 2016 at 2:21 am - Reply

    A Place at the Table has just appeared in our latest missallette, and our choir director made us learn it at our last practice before summer break. I couldn’t believe it! My previous favorite hymn to hate was Gather Us In, but this one has passed it up. Later I wrote the director an email detailing what was wrong with verse two, and even worse, I think, that third (or is it fourth?) verse about a place at the table for “abused and abuser” ???!!!??? I mean, really, in light of recent history,someone on the hymn selecting office of JS Pauluch thought this was a good idea? Do ya think they first consulted a few abuse victims to see if just maybe this lyric might be a bit, um, triggering?

  3. Karee Santos September 3, 2016 at 11:27 pm - Reply

    St. John Paul II’s Letter to Artists also gave pride of place to choral works of the Great Masters, polyphony, and Gregorian chant. I thank God for our local cathedral in the Diocese of Rockville Centre with its exquisite music program, and for the National Basilica in Washington, D.C. Good music does still exist in the Church!

  4. Dawn Slike September 3, 2016 at 9:36 pm - Reply

    I am happy and relieved that neither of these songs (don’t qualify as hymns) has ever crossed the path of my line of vision. Sincerely, parish organist and cantor of 31 years

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